Scapegoat Healing Journey - Part VI
A New Beginning and Becoming Who You Really Are
In the previous part, you learned how to set boundaries and defend them even when people close to you try to violate them. Setting boundaries brings two major effects.
The first one is that you keep toxic people out of your life. It feels like you’ve upgraded your entire quality of life. There will be less drama, and you will generally have more energy.
The second effect is that you get an even better understanding of who you are and who you are not. You will be less likely to be a target of manipulation... because you keep such people at a distance. Reconnecting with your feelings will be a huge update to your inner red flag radar.
You will not comply with other people’s standards just to belong. You start to live your life in a way that feels authentic for you. In a way that will feel like a new beginning.
And that's when it gets interesting.