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Scapegoat Healing Journey - Part V

Dealing With Boundary Violations

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Tim Wiesnerer
Nov 06, 2025
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Setting boundaries is quite simple once you have learned to say no.

You might be surprised that most people accept a simple no without asking for a reason. In the beginning, that will feel like magic, as if you discovered a new superpower.

In case you missed Part IV, you can find it by clicking below.

Scapegoat Healing Journey - Part IV

Scapegoat Healing Journey - Part IV

Tim Wiesnerer
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October 28, 2025
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Of course, there will be people who don't respect your boundaries. But in most cases, it's easy to keep them at a distance or simply close the door right in front of their noses.

And then there’s a third group…

The ones who punish you for having boundaries. They're the toughest to deal with, as they also happen to be the people closest to you.

Yes, I am talking about your family—the ones who made you their scapegoat.

Today's part will be about how to deal with boundary violations coming from them.

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