Scapegoat Healing Journey - Part IV
Learning to set boundaries and stepping out of your old role
The first three parts were a preparation for what’s coming today.
In this part, you will learn how to set boundaries and finally step out of your scapegoat role. It may sound like a tough lesson, but trust me, it is not. It's more of a discipline and repetition exercise.
As a child, when you were forced into the scapegoat role, you were never allowed to set boundaries with your parents. You had to play their script. You were never seen for who you are, nor accepted for having your own identity.
This conditioning haunts many scapegoats. They often end up as people pleasers and wonder why the same painful patterns keep repeating.
In Part III, you learned where all this is coming from. You also began to understand who you really are. Now it’s time to establish your real identity—and for this, it requires boundaries that you'll protect like a precious energy sphere.