You accurately described the real, unfair, and uneven struggle of a person who grew up in a dysfunctional family.
I find your invitation to express our preferences regarding what we would like to discuss about boundaries heartwarming.
I was wondering...what becomes of the struggling person later in life? I mean, does their evolution depend on their level of sensitivity, empathy, and so on? How are their later relationships affected?
I'm anticipating your next article, as always :-)✨🌹🌻
Yes, it's an unfair game. Understanding that can help to be a bit softer with yourself. Because it's not really your fault. Of course, you want out of those dynamics and be who you are.
As for what becomes with a person struggeling with this… when you are lucky you find out that you weren't living your life and did not thrive yet as for who you are… so you can change that…
If you don't find out… you may become bitter and never stumble on articles like these… tho these days such information is all around.
This was a very accurate test! I am exactly at that 50% mark..where I am trying out new behaviors and very aware of old patterns but still struggle in my closest relationships..Thanks!
45.31% means you don't have to start from the very beginning. You already have some tailwind and of course are aware of what you can improve. No need to force things. Often small but steady steps work all the better.
Thank you for your feedback, now the sun shines in my belly ☀️
As for relationships... in several cases I realised afterwards that what I was experiencingiencing was kind of a deja vu from family dynamics. Sometimes it's spooky how long that can haunt you... and it's even funnier that we often couldn't see the obvious... well funny, once you can of course.
My family no longer exists, but the shadow of their unhealthy legacy is still in my system. Your article was like biodynamic therapy; I could hear my gut gurgling in response. The results of the test confirm my suspicion that I still have a lot of work to do. Thank you so much.
I have been living with the dysfunctional narcissistic family system patterns of abuse way all my life. This is not 1972 anymore. Some people will never change. The love that used to be is only a narrative yo fall in line to theaato have are only emotional abuse memories
Some people may not change… but of course you decide what changes you want to make… and sometimes the best you can do is to become who you truly are and not compromise not more in that regard.
You accurately described the real, unfair, and uneven struggle of a person who grew up in a dysfunctional family.
I find your invitation to express our preferences regarding what we would like to discuss about boundaries heartwarming.
I was wondering...what becomes of the struggling person later in life? I mean, does their evolution depend on their level of sensitivity, empathy, and so on? How are their later relationships affected?
I'm anticipating your next article, as always :-)✨🌹🌻
Yes, it's an unfair game. Understanding that can help to be a bit softer with yourself. Because it's not really your fault. Of course, you want out of those dynamics and be who you are.
As for what becomes with a person struggeling with this… when you are lucky you find out that you weren't living your life and did not thrive yet as for who you are… so you can change that…
If you don't find out… you may become bitter and never stumble on articles like these… tho these days such information is all around.
I haven't become bitter🙂 I know it's easy for the heart to become bitter and cold after all this... But maybe I wasn't drawn to easy😂
This was a very accurate test! I am exactly at that 50% mark..where I am trying out new behaviors and very aware of old patterns but still struggle in my closest relationships..Thanks!
Yes I found the test very accurate too Terri. My score was similar at 45.31%. Will be working on the areas that need some improvement.
45.31% means you don't have to start from the very beginning. You already have some tailwind and of course are aware of what you can improve. No need to force things. Often small but steady steps work all the better.
Thank you for your feedback, now the sun shines in my belly ☀️
As for relationships... in several cases I realised afterwards that what I was experiencingiencing was kind of a deja vu from family dynamics. Sometimes it's spooky how long that can haunt you... and it's even funnier that we often couldn't see the obvious... well funny, once you can of course.
My family no longer exists, but the shadow of their unhealthy legacy is still in my system. Your article was like biodynamic therapy; I could hear my gut gurgling in response. The results of the test confirm my suspicion that I still have a lot of work to do. Thank you so much.
Welcome 🤗
I'm glad the test is useful for you. Will develop a bit more of that, and of course, will also write more about boundaries in my Tuesday notes.
It's a fascinating topic that can do so much for you.
I have been living with the dysfunctional narcissistic family system patterns of abuse way all my life. This is not 1972 anymore. Some people will never change. The love that used to be is only a narrative yo fall in line to theaato have are only emotional abuse memories
Some people may not change… but of course you decide what changes you want to make… and sometimes the best you can do is to become who you truly are and not compromise not more in that regard.